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I started with that. I then used 6’ of 2” PVC painted black as the pole. I drilled two holes through the pipe for eye...
You can fit 33-35” tire without a lift and even on factory rims if you wish. Those sizes will handle the terrain you mention except for super deep mud, of course.
Removing the air dams gives more tire clearance and IMHO looks better. Neither Overland nor Rubicons have them.
Bigger tires are...
I used the Teraflex 1.5” kit and used both spacers to get the full amount. To my eye there is still a touch of rake. To be safe you could always do the 1” .
Have you watched Bank’s own video on it? They talk about its potential to flow more air but listen for any claims that this does anything for your performance
I went with the Pedal Commander based on a recommendation from this forum. I have not regretted it. It has many different levels of tune and makes a noticeable difference. I cannot speak to the others but I am satisfied with my choice.