ShadowsPapa
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- Bill
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I'm sure you and others here have seen the reports that show how many Americans are xx thousands of dollars in debt - on CREDIT CARDS, not counting home mortgage, vehicle loans and student loans. Credit cards - some have 2 or 3 almost maxed out. Some I know "float" those cards - they get another app in the mail and transfer balances, etc.I work at a camping resort and the amount of “younger couples” coming in with brand new diesels and nice new trucks and 38-42 foot toy hauler 5th wheels with 8,000$ golf carts is absolutely mind boggling. Like people in they’re early 30s. A lot of these rigs are like 70-80,000$ for the truck and another 80-100k for the fifth wheel.
so yeah a built gladiator doesn’t seem to bad to me. We see people with a built jeep and think money. Which it is don’t get me wrong but we don’t drive by everyone’s house and judge them on they’re massive mansion or they’re 150,000$ Escalade. I tell my wife that
when we drive down the road. If she sees a built truck she’s says looks like they have money lol. I say, you didn’t say anything when the g wagon just went by!!! Haha idk it’s just money who cares what people do I guess.
Just wait until it's time for them to retire! LOL - they think they can live on SS?
Dominic, a guy I worked with in the 90s, was an Italian guy, came over with his parents as a youth. Modest car (some would ask why he hadn't already crushed it at over 200,000 miles, big old thing, looked old, too). He drove that car to work, or at times took the bus. He lived in an old south-side of Des Moines 2 story house - small, tiny lot, no garage - with his Italian mother who knew only spotty English. He didn't spend money - he worked in the same department I did - and as an electrician and network person I earned more than he did - I made $13,000/year. He usually brought his lunch. Some would call him cheap, my mother would have called him frugal or "Scotch".
A couple of years after I left that company for greener pastures (and 6K a year more) I got a call from a friend who still worked there with Dominic - hey, Bill, did you hear about Dominic? Yeah, he built a new quarter-million dollar house on the SE side! Paid CASH!
Just goes to show - you have no real idea unless you personally know the person and their situations. He was saving pennies, living like a pauper - keeping his debt load at 0. And now lives in a very nice house and has no mortgage.
Then there was the woman in our agency when I worked for government. She spent money like it was water in the ocean. Spent a lot of time at casinos, claimed she won a lot of the time, took a lot of sick days and that's generally where she'd be found. When she REALLY got sick she was begging for sick leave donations and crying when the government and union agreed to wage freezes claiming she just couldn't make ends meet as it was, living paycheck to paycheck. She was the exact opposite of Dominic. Spent it as fast as it came in, wasted her sick leave, claimed she couldn't afford to put any money aside to be matched by the government (we could set aside up to xx dollars from each check and they'd match it up to so many $$. FREE MONEY! You save, and they'll toss money into the pot. Hell yeah!
When we did get a raise, such as it was, we decided we were living ok, getting bills paid so didn't HAVE to have it. We set it aside - and so did our employer, matching what we saved.
If I was sick, I sometimes took vacation instead of sick leave. I was very frugal with my sick leave - in fact, my wife kept a spreadsheet that showed at any given time how much sick leave and vacation time I had. I kept the sick leave maxed out, and usually maxed out vacation to the point of take it or lose it.
When I retired, the state took my hourly salary x the hours of sick leave I had saved up (maxed out) and put that amount into a pot and paid for my health insurance each month save for $20 a month. When I hit 65 and that program ended automatically, money left or not, there was a month's health insurance money left in there. So I paid $20/month for health insurance for the first couple of years, then it went up to $40/month until I hit 65.
Working my butt off, little vacation time taken, staying as healthy as possible - not wasting sick leave meant while others struggled to pay for health insurance - mine was mostly covered. My wife, unfortunately, burned her sick leave by converting it to vacation time. She was only covered the first 2 years after she retired, but still it softened the blow.
It's PRIORITIES you set. What's important to you.
Yeah, I'm retired - but I have a shop and spend countless hours in the shop doing restorations for others to help cover the JT expenses. My wife does quilting for others with her long-arm quilting machine. That way we can afford to leave this county once in a while. People have no idea the time she spends doing that just so we can enjoy a few days now and then. She rarely "just sits".
Frankly, I don't know how some people out there do it - but then we don't know their circumstances, and when they reach my age, they may be in such a hole they have to work at Walmart just to buy groceries or pay for their medicare. Or - they may have been super smart in other areas. Who knows. If you see lights on in their garage in the evening - are they installing a lift kit - or are those grow lights?
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