ShadowsPapa
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In Korea - I was surprised to see how polite people in traffic were. They needed to get to their own destination, but were not rude or aggressive in a mean way. Cars were pretty much ding-free.Bogotá is just like this. And boy did it take me a while to get used to that. Major road in the city? No left. Go across and make 3 rights instead. Many times the roads are one-way and organized to facilitate this. It's weird. But once I got the hang of it, it made driving there much easier. And the traffic there is certainly chaotic compared to the US, yet they make it work. It's all about being clear and predictable with your actions, and being a decent person.
Sadly I feel that we don't do either of those in the States, we act like we "own" the whole road and have a right to do whatever we want whenever we want. The posts and comments you see from Americans like "we can trade paint, it's up to you" really drive this home. We are not considerate. We do not work together on the road. Not at all. We are very aggressive and self-absorbed.
Parking around apartments was interesting. Most cars had a sign in the window with a phone number. My son saw me looking at the cars packed together in spots where most couldn't possibly get out - and said no, they aren't for sale - if you need to get your car out, you call that number and the owner will come out and move their car for you so you can get out.
I thought - no way in hell that would work here! you'd get rude messages along with the finger instead. Tough, I ain't moving my car for anyone.
Everyone was polite - minded their own business and a lot of rushing here and there, but not at the expense of anyone else. Your peers would punish you and look down on you for being nasty.
On the trains and subways, there was 0 hesitation if someone needed to get through or an older person or woman came in and the seats were full - a seat would be instantly offered. (even though everyone on the subway had their face in a phone texting or whatever, they were aware of what was around them)
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