Beige is a close match to my Gobi, but I thought hang flags were supposed to be red... ?I have a buddy, he and his Wife went down to Florida on vacation. She's taken ill, and he's asked me to cut the grass at his house till his return. So handy having a pick up for situations like this!
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Sorry to hear about your parents.A couple of days ago, my wife and I went through my now empty parent's house.
3 loads to Goodwill and 5 to the dumpsters.
I considered doing a yard sale or estate sale, but dealing with hagglers over my deceased parents' stuff just felt like it wasn't worth the few hundred dollars that it might generate.
We kept the things that we wanted, small and personal items, photos, etc.
They really didn't have much of value in the house itself, and to their credit, as did most from that era, they lived well within their means and saved for years and years, so most of what they left my two remaining brothers and me was easily transferred.
Do your kids a favor, and periodically go through your old stuff and purge what you don't need and they don't want.
Also make your arrangements, your will, and make sure that they know where any and all accounts and resources are located and how to access them.
Those last ten or so years of your natural life get away in a hurry.
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I'm sorry for your loss as well. It's a tough thing to deal with.A couple of days ago, my wife and I went through my now empty parent's house.
3 loads to Goodwill and 5 to the dumpsters.
I considered doing a yard sale or estate sale, but dealing with hagglers over my deceased parents' stuff just felt like it wasn't worth the few hundred dollars that it might generate.
We kept the things that we wanted, small and personal items, photos, etc.
They really didn't have much of value in the house itself, and to their credit, as did most from that era, they lived well within their means and saved for years and years, so most of what they left my two remaining brothers and me was easily transferred.
Do your kids a favor, and periodically go through your old stuff and purge what you don't need and they don't want.
Also make your arrangements, your will, and make sure that they know where any and all accounts and resources are located and how to access them.
Those last ten or so years of your natural life get away in a hurry.
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It’s all part of the adventure.I have no photos to memorialize being an absolute dummy….
So I’ll just have to tell you about it.
Directly across from my rural subdivision, they have leveled hundreds of acres to put a “Del Webb” senior living neighborhood, and a little further than that they are clearing land and have roughed in the roads for another housing development.
My dog is a dummy, and somehow got out of the fence and ran across the road to this other housing development (thank God he didn’t get hit- he’s never gotten out before. Turns out the latch had broken. Its fixed now).
So I get in my truck and I cross the road and drive onto the gravel entrance to the roughed in roads. I thought I saw the dog, so I kept on, down about a 2.5' shelf, and I didn’t notice that after several days of Tennessee rain that the roughed in road looked suspiciously perfectly smooth and peanut buttery.
I made it about 12 feet before I was just stuck. Absolutely, hopelessly stuck.
It was perfect, nasty, peanut butter mud. And it was deep enough that the lower part of the tire (I guess around 9" or so) below the rim was completely under the mud.
I put into 4L, locked both axles, and honestly barely made it out. Due to the ledge I drove down when I wasn't paying attention, I had to keep going forward.
It took me 25 minutes to get through this sea of peanut butter, out, and around to a different exit.
I had no recovery options because the land had been rough leveled, so I would have no choice but go get my wife's Wrangler and use it to winch myself out had that not worked.
Honestly, it was a terrible experience only because I was completely irresponsible. Had I planned it, it would have been a blast.
But thank GOD I have the truck I do because any other truck and I would have had one bad day.
No. Mom died suddenly in 2016.Sorry to hear about your parents.
Both at the same time?
That must have made the loss even tougher.
Oh.No. Mom died suddenly in 2016.
My dad, who was considerably older than she, hung in there pretty good until about the last 5-6 months.
He had a long and enjoyable life. The end was a bit rough, but he handled it gracefully.
My dad lived independently for the most part until about a year ago.Oh.
sounds about like my parents except my mom just passed away a few months ago. My dad could possibly last another ten years. They didn’t plan very well and with my dad neading full time care he got moved into a nursing home and the house got sold with everything inside that they left behind. They did pass on the valuables to us kids last year but better planning would have made a big difference in their lives which to us is the priority.